Pantea Shabkhiz Paya and her family in the U.S

It’s good to be involved in your grandchild’s life and to let the parents know that you’re ready and willing to help out when needed. Whether it’s cooking or cleaning in the first month or providing childcare a couple of days a week once the parents go back to work, another pair of hands could be invaluable. But always remember those boundaries, ask before stepping in, and don’t be offended if the parents say no.